When kissing a girl – did she reject you? Here is how you never will be rejected again!

You’re about to learn, hands down, the best way to successfully get a girl to kiss you without fear of rejection. In the advanced version of this technique, you can even get the girl you’re talking to to lean in to kiss you!

So if you’ve ever been afraid of getting rejected going for a kiss OR you’ve gotten “the cheek” you know why having a rock-solid technique to moving in for the kiss is 100% crucial.

Going in for the kiss is probably the worst place to face rejection in an interaction with a girl because:

You’ve invested a lot of TIME by this point in the interaction, and there simply isn’t enough time in your night to get this far and then hit a brick wall and have to move on.
Screwing up this part of the interaction can ruin all chances of moving on from here to seduction.
Most guys don’t have the chance to learn how to perfect going for a kiss because it happens so infrequently!

Even on a good night, most guys will typically find one girl they hit it off with at the bar where a kiss is probably even a possibility.

So normally, you’d have to face a lot of these rejections one by one to learn the best way to successfully go in for a kiss.

But luckily, I’ve already gone through all those failures for you (until I discovered this killer technique), and can present the best way to avoid failure and shortcut right to success.

Sound good?

The Kiss Technique makes it so that when you’re speaking to a woman, you can intentionally give off subconscious triggers that will make her think about kissing you!

Pretty powerful stuff…

If You Use This Technique, Suddenly Making a Woman Want to Kiss You Will Be Something You Have Control Over

If you decide to “wing it” in the stage like most guys, however, you’re going to run into problems…

First, you won’t know how physically receptive she is to kissing you. A tried and true rule to go by is this:

Your hesitation = Her reservation

So the more you hesitate, the worse your chances get, because she starts to build up all sorts of red flags and reservations.

When you go to lean in for the kiss and you don’t do it the right way at the right time, you’ll come off as needy (like you don’t have a lot of options with women) because if you did have a lot of options, you wouldn’t be worrying about the kiss with this girl.

So how do we show that you are absolutely NOT needy (even if you kind of feel like you are) and provide a way so that you will not fear rejection because you will know for sure ahead of time that she is wanting to kiss you?

We use what’s called The Kiss Technique.

This involves combining two psychological concepts into a perfect recipe for mastering the kiss.

The First Concept Is Called Triangular Gazing

This will happen while you have built rapport and are looking to move into seduction. It involves looking from one eye to another, then looking at her mouth.

When you start looking at her mouth, you will subconsciously start to think about kissing her, because this action is already anchored to the thought of kissing someone.

Even if you look at a woman you’re not attracted to and look at her mouth, you can start to think about kissing her, and you will become MORE attracted to her.

The good news is…the same happens for women.

The even BETTER news is…you can lead her to subconsciously start to do this and feel more attracted. How?

By using the second half of the recipe…another psychological concept called Mirroring.

Whenever we are in conversation with someone, we will mirror the leader of the conversation in an attempt to build subconscious rapport with them.

When you perfectly combine triangular gazing and mirroring, you have a combination that will…

Make Her Subconsciously Think About Kissing You

After talking with her in rapport, start to look at her mouth. At first, only for 2 seconds, then look back to her eyes. Switch between her left and right eye, then back to her mouth for a few seconds longer.

Continue to go from left to right eye and back to her mouth for 2 seconds, 3 seconds, then 5 seconds.

Eventually, you want to be mostly looking at her mouth.

When she begins to look at your mouth as well, you know for sure that she’s ready to kiss you.

Voila! The Kiss Technique takes all of the guess work out of “making a move”.

You will now know with confidence when she wants to kiss you, and get to be the fully assertive but perceptive man that women find irresistibly sexy.

She will feel like you know exactly how to treat a woman and feel safe and confident moving on with you.

Now, if you want to take this technique to the next level and make it so that girls will be leaning in to you and basically begging you to kiss them, you only have to know one magical sentence.

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You’ve met the most incredible girl…

You don’t really know her, but you’re pretty sure she’s a Goddess… sent straight from Heaven… in jeans.

You exchanged glances in Chemistry, had a few brief conversations after class, and even bumped into her at the mall. (Talk about fate!)

You KNOW you want her. There’s no doubt about it. The question now becomes, “Does she want you?”

She smiles at you… but is it a friendly or a flirtatious smile?

You saw her leave with another guy after class… was he her boyfriend?

She flirted with you last week, even touched your shoulder… then completely ignored you the other day.

Does she like you?

How can you tell? You really need to know this before you begin the “pursuit” don’t you?

Perhaps the most common question posed on the SoSuave Discussion Forum concerns “reading women” and trying to figure out whether they like you or not. The poster usually describes his situation, what he did, what she did, and then asks, “Does this mean she likes me?” Or, “Does this mean she doesn’t like me?”

Definitely a popular question. Definitely a question in need of an answer.

Okay, here’s the best answer you’re probably ever going to get and what you need to remember… always…

Obsessing about a particular girl, and whether or not she likes you, is the KISS OF DEATH with women!

If you’re worrying about whether a girl likes you or not, chances are she doesn’t – or rather, SHE WON’T. She won’t because your “worry” and your “obsession” with what she thinks of you will actually push her away.

Let me try to explain.

When you let yourself fall into the “obsession” trap, you begin to analyze everything your dream girl does, every word she says, every move she makes… and try to relate them all to you!

She smiled at you – she didn’t smile at you. She emailed you – she didn’t email you. She returned your call – she didn’t return your call. Confusion, frustration, and anxiety result.

This obsession with her behaviors and their meanings will paralyze you, confuse you, and suck every ounce of confidence you have from your body. You will become a Blithering Blob of Insecurity. And women, in general, are not attracted to Blithering Blobs of Insecurity.

So are you wrong to be confused by women?

NO! Absolutely NO!

Women ARE confusing. Always have been and always will be. That’s just the way they are.

Especially when it comes to romance, women seem totally inconsistent in their behaviors.

One minute you’re convinced you’re the man of her dreams, and the next she seems to be unaware of your existence. One minute she’s flirting, and smiling, and rubbing up against you, and the next minute she’s gone, left without even saying “bye.” You SHOULD be frustrated and confused!

Now, no one knows exactly why women give off such mixed signals and deliberately, it seems, attempt to confuse us. Some suspect it’s those magazines they read. Others think it has to do with the secret bathroom conferences they hold. Still others propose that their illogical behaviors are due to the wacky hormones they have surging throughout their bodies. The cause is relatively unimportant. You just have to accept it, and plot your strategy to deal with it.

So, given the inconsistencies of female romantic behavior, attempting to “read” women and figure out what they’re thinking, is, at best, an incredibly frustrating experience. So don’t do it. Don’t even attempt it.

Just say NO to “reading” women!

Okay… well… if you don’t really try to “read” women to determine whether they like you or not, then what do you do? What’s your strategy? After all, they may be confusing, illogical, and somewhat annoying, but you still wanna get you one.


If you’re attracted to a girl, then just ASSUME she’s attracted to you too. And ACT ACCORDINGLY!

Assume that she likes you and would like to get to know you better. Assume that she’s physically attracted to you. Assume that YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES to attract such a lady, no matter how incredible she seems.

Assume the positive… always the positive. Assuming the negative will kill any chances you might have with her. (Pessimists, my friend, are not “chick magnets.”)

Now there are many exciting benefits of adopting this attitude of assuming that women you like also like you… and treating them accordingly.

For one, if you refuse to obsess about all the little “signs” she’s giving you, whether they be good signs or bad signs, you will feel more relaxed, calm, and confident. You won’t be “up” one minute because she smiled at you, and “down” the next because she also smiled at some other guy.

Attempting to “read” her will only lead to confusion, frustration, and anxiety. And this will make you more tense when she’s around, and thus, less likely to be the charming, charismatic Don Juan that you’d like to be.

And you also won’t be wasting your time trying to figure out what she’s thinking… trying to figure out what every little move means… and where you stand. You’ll be able to devote your “mental time” to something more useful and productive.

Secondly, if you just assume that she likes you, then you will actually increase the probability that she eventually WILL like you. This is known as a self-fulfilling prophecy, and is a well-documented phenomenon in psychological research.

Basically what this means is that if you have a “she likes me” attitude, then you’ll project positive, optimistic behaviors and thoughts. She’ll pick up on these and … like you.

If, on the other hand, you have a “she doesn’t like me” attitude, you’ll project negative, pessimistic behaviors and thoughts. She’ll, likewise, pick up on these and … not like you.

And if you have a “does she like me” attitude, then you’ll project tense, anxiety-ridden behaviors and thoughts that will decrease the probability of her liking you… or she may even find being around you to be an “uncomfortable” experience. (Isn’t it easier to relax around people who are relaxed themselves?)

And third, the attitude of just assuming that she likes you, rather than worrying about whether she does or not, allows you to maintain control of the situation… and yourself.

If you are obsessing about the “signs” and allow the “signs” to control your behaviors, thoughts, and emotions, then you have basically given her complete control of the situation. And complete control over you!

If she’s “good” to you, you’re happy. If she’s “bad” to you, you’re sad. If she wants to encourage you, she can throw out a few positive signals. If she wants to discourage you, she can throw out a few negative signals. Your happiness is basically under her control… whether she knows it or not.

Not the position that a “Don Juan” likes to be in. Not the position that you want to be in.

However, if you just assume that she likes you and treat her accordingly, and refuse to be controlled by all the little signs (especially the bad ones), you take charge of the situation. You have decided that you like her. And you have decided that she likes you… or will like you when she gets to know you better. And you act accordingly.

You exude confidence. You’re relaxed. And you project that “aura” that every budding Don Juan searches for. (The poor girl won’t stand a chance up against that aura!)

Okay, so you agree that obsessing about a particular girl and whether or not she likes you is not in your best interest. It will turn you into a Blithering Blob of Insecurity, decrease the probability that she will like you, and give her complete control over your happiness.

So what do you do when those thoughts start to take over your mind? I mean, after all, she is a Goddess, right?

Here’s one simple little mental trick that might help you…

Whenever the obsessive “does she like me” thoughts start to take over your mind, even if they’re the “good” ones, mentally grab them with your hands, throw them down on the floor, and step on them. Then remind yourself that obsessing about her is not in your best interest, that it will suck away your confidence, and actually decrease the probability that you’ll eventually get her.

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