Have you ever wondered how to talk to woman?

By golly, you’ve actually met a woman.

Maybe you’re in bar. Maybe you’re at the gym or laundromat. Maybe she’s someone you know from work. Or maybe, even, you’re actually out on a date.

In any event, now you’ve got to do something scary, something unpredictable, something with the power to launch a future romantic relationship, or end one before it even gets started. YOU’VE GOT TO TALK TO HER.

What do you talk about? Should you tell her about your childhood, your therapist, your plans for the future, the wart on your big toe? What if you can’t think of anything to say? What if you say the wrong thing? And, by the way, what would be the “right” thing to say? Do you have a clue?

Most guys don’t. When your average gent converses with a woman, he’s basically just flailing blindly at the wind, hoping by chance that something he says will “connect” with the woman and make her fall for him.

Needless to say, this is not the “Don Juan” way of doing things.

You need to have a plan. You need to know DEFINITELY what works and what doesn’t, what to talk about and what not to talk about. You don’t want to leave her feelings to chance or to fate. You want to be charming and in control.

And that’s what we’re going to discuss right now.

Now there are many many aspects of a conversation. This particular article focuses on the conversational TOPICS that you should focus on when wooing a beautiful lady. Those topics which will almost GUARANTEE increased interpersonal attraction. Topics which will leave you in complete charge of the conversation, and which will leave you the option, IF YOU SO DESIRE, of future conversations, dates, or an intense romantic relationship.

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Are you getting excited?

Okay, so WHAT exactly do you talk about?

Well, the first thing to remember is that men frequently err by talking TOO MUCH. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they’re “impressing” the women when, in reality, they’re “depressing” the women.

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you’re saying doesn’t necessarily mean she really is. She might just be acting polite while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away… and never come back.

So key number one is DON’T TALK SO MUCH! Try not to monopolize the conversation and try to LISTEN to what SHE has to say. Remember, everyone is incredibly interested in what they themselves have to say. People will talk to you about themselves for as long as you will listen.

So stop worrying about what you’re going to say next. Focus all your attention and energy on listening to what the woman is saying to you. Try to visualize or “feel” what she’s saying.

This does take a little effort. It’s not very hard to do, but it’s not something that men “naturally” do. You simply have to concentrate.

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Now when listening you want to pay particular attention to any “seeds” or free information she happens to throw your way. Seeds refer to subtle hints that women give that point to conversational topics that they would like to or be willing to discuss.

An example:

Bob: You come here often?
Kim: Actually this is my first time here. Just moved here from Florida.
Bob: Oh. I come here every week. I love this band. It’s pretty crowded tonight.

Bob is clueless.

Kim gives him plenty of free information to follow up on. It’s almost as if she’s testing him to see if he has the intelligence or social skills to capitalize on what she says. Bob fails.

So what would be the “right” thing to say?

Well… she mentions that this is her first time in the club and she just moved here from Florida. Bob could have properly “watered the seeds” by asking a) How does she like the club, band, etc? b) What brought her here from Florida? c) How long has she been in the area? d) Where in Florida is she from? e) How long was she there? f) What’s it like there?

Kim’s two short sentences gave Bob tons of information to follow up on. Tons of conversational topics that she has indirectly indicated that she’d like to talk about. But Bob was too worried about himself. Too worried about the impression he was making. Too worried about what to say next to LISTEN to what she said.

Do you see the importance of listening now? You must concentrate on what she says and block everything else out of your mind. If you listen you never have to worry about what to say next because the other person is “telling” you exactly what to say.

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How to Target and Cash in on Dating Niches for Dating Sites

Securing success in any business begins with matching your product with the right audience. The same goes for the dating business.

Finding a unique niche requires securing a specific audience to market your dating site to. Being efficient and able to spend less money on higher quality leads is the ultimate key to success. This will enable you to know your audience better, and tailor fit your marketing strategy to reach them. This way you can set the key messages and identify the keywords of interest to your audience, but also set your campaigns with precision. Plus, you will see monetisation sooner.

Where to start?

That being said, one might start asking oneself about the possible niches to choose from, and start looking for what niches are out there. First things first, you’ll need to do a bit of research! How specific you get depends on the size of the market you’re targeting. Going global sounds OK from your perspective, but you need to consider those who are looking for matches. Are they willing to meet people who are matching their interests but are miles away?

You should always put yourself in the shoes of someone looking for a date online.

Online daters are usually people whom you are passing on the street, with all their shortcomings and amazing little worlds inside their minds and souls. Are they all looking for the same thing? Surely not, no matter what all of those romantic movies told us.

Playing safe or going all the way?

Try to set a couple of categories for your site such as love, date or a casual hookup.  Are you marketing towards sugar daddies and angel babies? What type of common interest will you bring into the focus?  Do you plan on being global, or country specific? Will you offer one or more languages?

Think about something unique to bring people into the site. Think about the current trends: it can be a great starting point. GOT fans, vampire lovers, Star Wars, or Bronies (adult fan club of My Little Pony).

Choose something close to you or something with which you are more familiar. It will make the targeting so much easier.

Just to give you an idea, we’ve tried to list some of the common or less common successful dating niches to think about:

  1. DISABLED DATING

Dating, specifically online dating, can be tricky. Dating when you have a disability can make it significantly more challenging.  Searching for an awesome date or a long-haul relationship is so much easier if one finds a great site for dating.

  1. SENIORS

It may come as a surprise, but senior singles sometimes have a more vibrant love life than teenagers. It might be a great niche to start from, but there are many sub-niches to explore.

  1. XL LOVE

Dating can be intimidating for large people, as they are often stuck on awful dates with someone who doesn’t appreciate their beauty. With an online dating service, people can avoid misunderstandings and might engage in dating with more confidence.

  1. GAMER DATING

“A place for geeks” might be a gold mine. They spend a lot of time online and are religiously devoted to their favourite games. They are typically somewhat introverted and are more open to meeting people online, rather than in the bar. Surely they are looking for a fellow soul, someone they can share their passion with or play side-by-side holding hands.

  1. RELIGION

It goes without saying – religion is a defining aspect of many people’s lives. Typically, religious people would limit their search for love only to those sharing the same beliefs. If there is a particularly popular religion in your surrounding, this might be the right niche for you.

  1. MEETING COUPLES

Not everyone is willing to settle for only one person in a hookup. Use this and give people what they need!

  1. SAME SHADE OF GREY / KINKY

Finding someone willing to play their special game might be tricky in real life. Therefore, people tend to search for such dates online. There is an endless goldmine of ideas for creating a niche dating site if you are so inclined…

  1. NUDISTS

Nudism is a big part of some people’s life. Sometimes it is so important for their identity that some of them decide to get married in nude. Help pair find like-minded souls.

  1. DOG LOVERS

One of the oldest dating tricks in the book is to get a dog and go walking in the park. It is the easiest way to get into the chitty chatty mood with a fellow dog owner, or dog lover. Why not take this idea online and make dating web page out of it?

  1. UNIFORM DATING

There is something oddly attractive about men and women in uniforms – such as a policeman, nurse, firefighter, or pilot. Additionally, people in uniforms tend to have odd working hours and they are looking for someone who can live with that and keep the relationship alive. Cash in on this niche!

  1. ASTROLOGY DEVOTEES

Many people out there can’t start their day without checking their personal horoscope. There are some people who avoid Aquarius by all means. They know their perfect sign and are more than willing to engage in dating someone born at a particular time of the year. Astrology dating might be a huge success.

Using the above list as a guide, start listing a couple of ideas that you have. Next dive into the research. What is the size of your target market? Who are your competitors, if any? Try to scale your business as much as possible so you can set your expectations. You don’t need to settle for just one if you find more prospective areas. This might increase your chances of success, and revenue as well.

Now what? How do I start earning money?

Start by choosing your preferred traffic acquisition model for media buying. Whether you decide on CPM, CPC, Flat buys, PPL, PPS, or Rev-Share – you’ll want to ensure that you stay ROI positive, no matter what business model you decide on. Also, keep in mind that if you choose a Rev-share through an online dating White Label Dating, you’ll likely be looking at a 1 to 2 year yield.

Next, decide what type of marketing activities you will be focusing on at the beginning (those you are comfortable using). Set the budget you are willing to spend and revise it regularly.

Set some KPIs for your first three months and the first year. Plan to invest time into tracking and improving. Ideally this would be done daily, but at least once a week is necessary.

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